The Girls are Back in Town

After spending a week at Vero Beach, the girls are back in town! Angela went to Jeri Lynne's mom on Thursday, June 1 to spend a week at the beach with them in Vero. I knew Angela would be returning on Friday afternoon, but to my surprise Jeri Lynne came back as well. Jeri Lynne will go back to her mom's after Father's Day. It's good to have them both back home. Cheyene came over yesterday afternoon and all of them spent the night here last night and then we all went to Beau's baseball game today. After the game us girls decided to go to Royal Palm to see a movie. We enjoyed being together just us girls as David was hanging out with friends in town and Beau & Bubba had a Quinceañera to attend.

Arctic Edge Family Night

Family Night last night was great! The kids and their parents joined us as Pastor Jonathan presented the message of Salvation. Then we watched a powerpoint presentation of pictures from this week. Then the kids by class sang songs, recited memory versesthey learned from the week, and then enjoyed cookies and drink. We had a total of 80 enrolled this year with 8 professions of faith! Today is the last day and the kids will be learning that by listening to God, they can have courage to tell others about Jesus (Acts:1-21). Barbara Buker is our VBS Director and has done a wonderful job coordinating and overseeing VBS this week. I know that God has been glorified and many seeds have been planted in the hearts of the kids that were intrusted to us this week through the teachers that have served and the youth that have helped.

Day 4: Arctic Edge

Wow, we are on Day 4 of our Arctic Adventure. I can't believe that by this time tomorrow our adventure will be over. Tonight all the kids and their parents will join us for our Family Night. The kids will sing or do skits for their parents and we will view a slideshow of the week. Today the children learned by following Jesus, they can have courage to follow God's plan for their lives (Jeremiah 29:11).

Worship Rally

"Artie & Moose"

Singing Praises

David

Lori Brooks

Pastor Jonathan Brooks

Hannah Brooks

Day 3: The Arctic Edge

As we continue on the Arctic Adventure the children learned today that by believing in Jesus, they can have courage to confess Him as their Savior and Lord (John 3:16). We had 6 professions of faith today! Continue to pray for the teachers as teach this week.

Pray for Our Church

As I have mentioned in previous posts our Pastor and his family are moving to Edinburgh, Scotland. This past Sunday was their last Sunday with us. Not only are we going to miss them, but our church will be going through a transitional time as we search for the man God intends to Pastor our church. During this time I would ask that all who read this would be praying for our church during this time. Pray especially for our Youth Pastor, Jonathan Brooks, as he will be taking on other responsibilites as he serves as Interim Pastor. This will be a challenging time for him as he steps up to the added responsibilites as well as continuing to lead our youth. Pray also for his wife, Lori, as she supports and encourages him in this new role. Pray that they would have time as a family and that the Lord will raise up people to take on some of the responsibilities to help Jonathan in this time. Pray for our Staff Search Committee and our Deacons as they continue to interview potential candidates. Pray for our church members to be united and willing to serve where needed. Also, pray for me that I will be an encouragement to Jonathan and other leaders of this church and that I will be willing to serve wherever I'm asked to serve.

Day 2: The Arctic Edge

It was another great day at Vacation Bible School! We had 67 kids today. The teachers and helpers are doing a great job sharing the gospel with the children and teaching each day's lesson. Today's lesson taught that by trusting God, you can have courage to depend on Him not matter what happens (Esther 2:2 -18). Here are some snapshots from today.

David

Ryan, David & Tommy

Pastor Jonathan leading the Worship Rally

Diana & Nicholas enjoy being outside

David in Tommy's Arms Second grade class
Pre-K Class

Book Review: Humility: True Greatness by C.J. Mahaney

I have just finished reading Humility: True Greatness by C.J. Mahaney. I was amazed that this 170 page book could be packed with so much wisdom and biblical insight. Mahaney teaches why humility is important, what it looks like, where it comes from, and how to cultivate it in our lives. This book is biblical, helpful, and practical and it's also devastating for our pride when we heed its message. Mahaney never seems to stray too far from the heart of gospel. The book is divided into three parts which made it much easier to follow for me. The first two sections I have previously written about. The third part of this book book becomes extremely practical. Mahaney offers seven chapters of helpful suggestions which flesh out the biblical truth he has been teaching. Mahaney begins this practical section with this piercing comment: “It’s possible to admire humility while remaining proud ourselves. I’m very aware that it’s possible for me even now to be teaching on humility while neglecting pride in my own heart. And at this moment you may be deceiving yourself into thinking that you are making progress against pride simply because you are reading a book about humility.” Ouch! What a good reminder that we don’t grow through insight but through applying insight. While these seven chapters are an exposition of Mahaney’s “life list” of ways he cultivates pride. They are not to be followed legalistically but as wise suggestions. He encourages us to develop our own list and to purposefully put it into action.

How to Weaken Pride and Cultivate Humility (pg. 171-172)

1. (Always)Reflect on the wonder of the cross of Christ.
2. Begin your day by acknowledging your dependence upon God and your need for God.
3. Begin your day expressing gratitude to God
4. Practice the spiritual disciplines - prayer, study of God's Word, worship. Do this consistently each day and at the day's outset, if possible.
5. Seize your commute time to memorize and meditate on Scripture.
6. Cast your cares upon Him, for He cares for you.
7. At the end of the day, transfer the glory to God.
8. Before going to sleep, receive this gift of sleep from God and acknowledge His purpose for sleep.
9. Study the attributes of God.
10. Study the doctrines of grace.
11. Study the doctrine of sin.
12. Play golf as much as possible.
13. Laugh often, and laugh often at yourself.
14. Identify evidences of grace in others.
15. Encourage and serve others each and every day.
16. Invite and pursue correction.
17. Respond humbly to trials.

Martyn Lylod-Jones wrote the following about the surest way to pursue humility: There is only one thing I know of that crushes me to the ground and humiliates me to the dust, and that is to look at the Son of God, and especially contemplate the cross.

When I survey the wondrous cross
On which the Prince of glory died,
My richest gain I count but loss,
And pour contempt on all my pride.

Nothing else can do it. When I see that I am a sinner. . . that nothing but the Son of God on the cross can save me, I'm humbled to the dust. . . Nothing but the cross can give us this spirit of humility. (pg.66)

The Arctic Adventure

Today we started our Arctic Adventure! No, the kids and I are not vacationing in the arctic. However, the kids at Vacation Bible School are trekking north with us to the Arctic Edge: Where Adventure Meets Courage. Based on Joshua 1:9 "Have I not commanded you? Be strong and of good courage; do not be afraid, nor be dismayed, for the LORD your God is with you wherever you go." ,they will test their limits in the frozen frontier (although in South Florida it's hard to pretend it's arctic weather) and they will gain courage to follow Jesus in the everyday challenge of their lives. Today's lesson was based on 1 Kings 18:1-2, 17-39, where the kids learned that by knowing God, they can have the courage to show others that the Lord is God. This is the week that I always look forward to every year. This is a great outreach for our church and it's wonderful seeing these children with wonder and excitement in their eyes as they learn about Jesus. David has been helping with Vacation Bible School since he has been in our church youth group. This year he is helping co-teach the 3rd grade and doing skits during the Worship Rally. He will also prepare the PowerPoint presentation for Family Night on Thursday. He stays busy all week and loves every minute of it.

David as "Artie"

Reflections

Today all the staff along with their spouses & children went to the Clewiston Inn for a Staff Lunch. It will be our last Staff Lunch together with the Bridges. As we enjoyed our meal together, we shared about the times God has blessed us with over the past 3 years. We laughed at the funny things we remembered that have happened while Tim has been our Pastor and Administrator. When God called Tim and Krisy to First Baptist Church I was the only staff member other than a former custodian. Jonathan & Tommy came after Tim. After lunch today I did some reflecting of my own concerning Tim and his ministry at First Baptist Church. In a short time after they came our family grew to love them. Through their ministry and friendship we have learned so much. It is seldom these days to see a young couple that love the Lord the way they do. It is one of the first things you come to know about them as you develop a relationship with them. They have been through surgeries, illnesses, and family problems with us and prayed for us unfailingly. As I reflected on our time together I recall their service and their wisdom. There isn't enough words to describe what they mean to us. If I have learned nothing else from the Bridges it is this " But may it never be that I would boast, except in the cross of our Lord Jesus Christ, through which the world has been crucified to me, and I to the world." (Galatians 6:14). For I have seen them live this verse out in their lives. Then I think of the laughter, oh the laughter! So many times Pastors are thought of as serious, stanch, etc. But Tim proved that Pastors can be pastors and still laugh and have a good time.

Pastor Tim as a sumo wrestler
Pastor Tim as the Samurai
Pastor Tim & Jonathan portraying Ninjas

Tim's First Vacation Bible

Gainfully Employed

David started his first part-time job today. When he found out that his friend, Tommy, would be resigning from his job at our church he talked to several of our Deacons about applying for the job. Tommy is our custodian and is moving to West Palm Beach in the fall to attend Palm Beach Atlantic University. After much discussion among our deacons they decided that this job is better suited for an older individual, howver they offered David part-time employment for the summer doing odd jobs around the church that have needed to be done. David accepted the position with excitement. He will be working 32 hours a week doing things like pressure washing, painting, etc. David loves being at the church and it's a bonus as it helps out with transportation getting him to a job (since we will both be going to the same place). Not to mention he's working where he enjoys being the most!

Series Tied 1-1

Today was our 2nd annual Parent/Youth Softball game at Sugarland Park Complex. The youth tied the series 1-1 with a win against the adults (13-12). I'm still trying to find the rule in slow pitch softball that says you can't steal bases. I tried stealing from 1st to second but was told that it was illegal. Oh well, it is a commandment after all so I'll let it go. At least I knew where 2nd base was (only kidding Lori, you played a great game). I'm amazed at the talent of the adults and so was David. He told his team mates in the dugout (while we were winning the game) that he couldn't believe they were letting a group of adults (most of them over 40 years old) beat them. The adults brought their own cheerleaders this year. Delaney and Hannah were in our dugout cheering for their mommies! It was great afternoon playing against these youth and worth every ache we are sure to have come tomorrow morning. After the game we enjoyed hamburgers, hot dogs, chips, and dessert.




Delaney explains the rules to Mr. Thall

Pastor Tim ready to make a "Grand Slam"

Farewell

Glen and Mary Pridgen graciously opened their home to the Deacons and their wives along with the staff of our church tonight to say farewell to Pastor Tim, Krisy and Delaney Bridges. Glen prepared a "country boil" that consisted of shrimp, sausage, potatoes, onions and corn on the cob. As with any Baptist gathering the food was outstanding and the fellowship was sweet. Pastor Tim and his family are moving to Edinburgh, Scotland where Tim will puruse his PhD. It is with mixed emotions that we say farewell to them next Sunday for the last time. It's exciting to see them follow the Lord's leadership in their lives yet at the same time we will miss their ministry and friendship. This past Sunday night the church held a Dinner on the Grounds in their honor. Several of our deacons and our youth pastor shared how they have touched the lives of our church. Bob Buker said it best when he said "I'm not going to talk about you (referring to Tim) because that is not what you would want, because it's evident in your lives that it's not about you it's about the Lord." We are forever thankful that the Lord brought them to First Baptist Church and placed them in our lives.

Angela's New Fashion Accessory

Angela has a new fashion accessory, however it is not the rave. We picked up her knee brace this morning before she went to her first physical therapy appointment. She says it is uncomfortable but stablizes her knee. Her first session of physical therapy went well and only took an hour. Del, her therapist, said he would start her out coming twice a week and then increase it to three times a week. He explained to us that she would be sore after the therapy but this would increase her other muscles and lessen the likelihood of her damaging anything else. He is also going to prescribe her some exercises to do here at the house.

Youth Cake Auction

Last night the First United Methodist Church of Clewiston held a Youth Cake Auction. The proceeds from this auction will go to finance the youth mission trip to Tennessee in July. Angela has been an active part of this youth group since Hurricane Wilma hit our community last year. Each youth was required to bake a cake or dessert to auction off. Angela choose to bake a Chocolate Chip Cake (recipe compliments of Lori Brooks). This was her first time baking a cake all by herself. Although we did not taste it, it looked yummy!

Prior to the auction, the youth group helped prepared dinner and set tables for Wednesday Night Dinner. This allowed them to get some community hours (they need a total of 40) needed to go on the mission trip. Following the dinner the auction was held. Angela's cake was auctioned off for $25.01. She said there was a chocolate cake that went for $130.

I didn't get any pictures of her cake before taking it be auctioned off, but David happened to take one of her mixing it up!

Being an Encourager

Webster defines "encouragement" as: to give courage or confidence to, to raise the hopes of, to help one by sympathetic advice and interest, to promote or stimulate. The primary way we encourage others is by the words we speak. Too often we aren't using our lips to encourage our children but instead we are tearing them down. It's not always what you say but what tone we use when we speak.

William Barclay once said, "One of the highest of human duties is the duty of encouragement. It is easy to laugh at men's ideas; it is easy to pour cold water on their enthusiasm; it is easy to discourage others. The world is full of discouragers. We have a Christian duty to encourage one another. Many a time a word of praise or thanks or appreciation or cheer has kept a man on his feet. Blessed is the man who speaks such a word."

Blessed is the mother who can offer a word of praise, thanks, appreciation, or cheer to her children. The Bible has much to say about the power of our words. James 3 compares the tongue to three relatively small entities that control something comparatively larger. First he compares the tongue to a bit in a horse's mouth - a very small piece of metal that steers a large animal to the left or the right, or brings him to a halt. Second he compares the tongue to a ship's rudder. And finally, James compares the tongue to a tiny spark that can start a forest fire.
While James warns that our words can cause great destruction, they can also spark growth and motivation. James 1:6 states, "the tongue [the words we speak] sets on fire the course of our lives." As mothers, our words have the power to change the entire direction of a child's life! What an awesome gift we can give.

Diagnosis

We got the final diagnosis on Angela's knee today. Dr. Churchill said the anterior cruciate ligament (ACL) is torn . There is bone bruising and fluid just as the MRI showed but the ACL is torn. Because her body is not finished growing he does not want to do surgery now, however he prescribed physical therapy for 1 month (2 - 3 times a week) along with a knee brace. We will see him again in a month to see how the therapy has helped. Whena sked how this would affect her activities in sports he said provided the therapy and the brace work she could participate in sports. Angela has decided on her own that she will take the season off from soccer this year and give her body the opportunity to heal.

Grasping Pride

I have currently started reading Humility: True Greatness by C.J. Mahaney. I have wanted to read this book since a friend of mine read it a couple of months ago. Although I am just beginning the book I have already come to realize that in order to be humble I must first grasp what it means to be proud. If you are like me, you will not readily admit to being proud or prideful. As Mahaney points out "none of us are immune to the logic-defying, blinding effects of pride. Though it shows up in different forms and to differing degrees, it infects us all. It's not if pride exists in my heart; it's where pride exists and how pride is being expressed in my life. But what exactly is pride. Mahaney explains it like this,"Pride is when sinful human beings aspire to the status and position of God and refuse to acknowledge their dependence upon Him." Talk about stepping on toes, more like stomped on them and twisted on top of them . Ouch! . "Pride", John Stott writes, "is more than the first of the seven deadly sins; it is itself the essence of all sin." Jonathan Edwards called pride "the worst viper that is in the heart" and "the greatest disturber of the soul's peace and sweet communion with Christ." Edwards also ranked pride as the most difficult sin to overcome and "the most hidden, secret and deceitful of all lusts."

Proverbs 8:13 says: "The fear of the LORD is to hate evil; Pride and arrogance and the evil way And the perverse mouth I hate." Why does God hate pride? Mahaney explains it like this,"Pride is when sinful human beings aspire to the status and position of God and refuse to acknowledge their dependence upon Him." John Calvin wrote, "God cannot bear with seeing his glory appropriated by the creature in even the smallest degree, so intolerable to him is the sacrilegious arrogance of those who, by praising themselves, obscure his glory as far as they can." There are numerous warnings from Scripture about pride and through these scriptures we can find an expression of God's mercy that is intended to lead us to the path of humility. Mahaney points out that true greatness as biblically defined is serving others for the glory of God.

As I've read the first 59 pages of this book I have reason to be discouraged and to stop reading, but even more I have reason to be encouraged to finish reading this book because I know and believe "the Son of Man came not to be served but to serve, and to give his life as a ransom for many." For there is motivation and purpose to be found in humility. We only have to read Isaiah 66:1-2; Thus says the LORD:" Heaven is My throne, And earth is My footstool. Where is the house that you will build Me? And where is the place of My rest? For all those things My hand has made, And all those things exist," Says the LORD. " But on this one will I look: On him who is poor and of a contrite spirit, And who trembles at My word.

MRI Results

Angela's MRI results were faxed to me this morning. That doesn't mean I understand it by any means of the imagination. I'll still have to wait until we see the orthopedist on Friday, May 19 before I understand the results totally. Which I did make a phone call to a friend that is in the medical field and he says it's only a bad bruise and that the small joint effusion means there is fluid on her knee. He said if there is the orthopedist might drain the fluid off the knee (I see me leaving the building if they do). However for those interested this is the results:

Findings: The cruciate liagaments are intact. The is no focal meniscal signal abnormality seen. The medial and lateral collateral ligaments and quadriceps and patellar tendons appear normal. There is abnormal signal in the lateral femoral condyle and lateral tibial plateau compatible with bone bruise. There is a joint effusion present.

Impression: Bone bruise, lateral femoral condyle and lateral tibial plateau. Small joint effusion.

lateral femoral condyle

Tibial Plateau

Book Review: Becoming a Titus 2 Woman

Peace does an excellent job of showing women our responsibility that is in found in Gods word. It is refreshing to find a book that deals with the often neglected mandate of the older women teaching the younger women on matters of God, husband, and children. She not only shows us clearly our responsibilities, but shows us how to biblically approach and love the younger women. We have watered down God's standard for women and even discounted the things He established because it doesn't fit the norm of society or what society tells us. It's my prayer that as Christian women we would mentor the young girls that we are in contact with daily.

"Likewise, teach the older women to be reverent in the way they live, not to be slanderers or addicted to much wine, but to teach what is good. Then they can train the younger women to love their husbands and children, to be self-controlled and pure, to be busy at home, to be kind, and to be subject to their husbands, so that no one will malign the word of God." Titus 2:3-5

While Search Desiring God

I loved this article on Desiring God's website. I love this part in particular. . . we must understand how our sinful human hearts and minds work. One profound Biblical insight we need to know is that our heart exploits our mind to justify what the heart wants. That is, our deepest desires precede the rational functioning of our minds and incline the mind to perceive and think in a way that will make the desires look right. It is an illusion to think that our hearts are neutral and incline in accordance with cool rational observation of truth. On the contrary, we feel powerful desires or fears in our heart, and THEN our mind bends reality to justify the desires and fears.

How often do we try to justify our actions?

Softly and Tenderly

Isaiah 55:8 reads “For My thoughts are not your thoughts, Nor are your ways My ways,” says the LORD. And Psalms 30:5 says, "For His anger is but for a moment, His favor is for life; Weeping may endure for a night, But joy comes in the morning."

These scriptures, along with others, came to mind last night as I learned of the tradegy that took place in my sister-in-law's family. Though I nor that family can comprehend why something like this happened I rest in the knowledge that My Savior, the one that creates life and holds it in His hand, knows why and has a purpose for each event that takes place in our lives. That same God is the God that can turn our weeping into joy. I pray that this family will find comfort in the days to come and for the family members that do not know Christ, I pray that they would call out to Him now. For there is nothing too small or horrible that you can't bring to Jesus. He desires to have a relationship with you.

Softly and tenderly Jesus is calling,
Calling for you and for me;
See, on the portals He's waiting and watching,
Watching for you and for me.

Come home, come home,
Ye who are weary come home;
Earnestly, tenderly, Jesus is calling,
Calling, O sinner, come home!

Why should we tarry when Jesus is pleading,
Pleading for you and for me?
Why should we linger and heed not His mercies,
Mercies for you and for me?

Time is now fleeting the moments are passing,
Passing from you and from me;
Shadows are gathering, death-beds are coming,
Coming for you and for me.

Oh! for the wonderful love He has promised,
Promised for you and for me;
Tho' we have sinned He has mercy and pardon,
Pardon for you and for me.

Edifying Words

Currently I have been reading "Becoming A Titus 2 Woman" by Martha Peace. In this book are many examples of how to disciple younger women. It addresses the older woman's character as well as her mandate and God-given privilege to disciple young women. I am now on Chapter Five of this book and it has taken some time to get that far, as it's one of those books that you can't simply just read. It's convicting to say the least and I have found myself meditating on her word's which are taken straight from Titus 2:3-5.

One chapter in particular has really struck me. Chapter 4 is entitled "Her Character" in which Peace considers three characteristics of the Titus 2 woman. "Older women likewise are to reverent in their behavior, not malicious gossips, nor enslaved to much wine, teaching what is good, that they may encourage the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be sensible, pure, workers at home, kind, being subject to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be dishonored".

The first characteristic that Peace speaks of that struck me was how we are to guard our words carefully. 1 Timothy 3:11 says, "Women must likewise be dignified, not malicious gossips, but temperate, faithful in all things." Now there is nothing wrong with talking but too often we forget to guard our words and as I have heard said, "what comes up comes out." Too many times I have not thought about what was about to come out of my mouth and the result was that I ended up offending someone. Peace points out that the biblical criteria for the words I speak should be: to speak edifying words, speak truthful words, and speak good repute words.

Edifying Words: These words build up others. Such words are honoring to God and have an eternal purpose and worth. When speaking to anyone our desire should be to help the other person be like Christ.

Truthful Words: It is not an uncommon occurance today for people to lie. And sadly it is accepted in the world today. There are times when we aren't intentionally lying, but by omitting a part of a story or by being deceitful in some other way we are in essence lying. It is so easy to fall into the trap of gossip or even telling a downright lie. Peace cautions that even when we are telling the truth, we can still be gossiping and painting the other person in a bad light.

Good Repute Words: These words do not lead to slander and gossip. In fact they think of the other person's reputation. If it's something that will make them look bad, then go to them in private and speak to them about it. And don't go with that "holier than thou" attitude either. Be gentle and loving, but at the same time truthful, clear, and straight forward. Give them hope not despair.

I love the advice from Peace and her honesty within this chapter. The easiest way to speak edifying words, truthful words, and good repute words is simply by not talking too much! If we talk long enough we are eventually going to say something we shouldn't be saying. This is where I need to do some serious work. . . keeping my mouth shut!

All Around the World

Clewiston Performing Arts Center presented their annual Spring Recital, "All Around the World", yesterday afternoon at the Clewiston High School Auditorium. Children ranging from 3 years old to 15 years old performed tap, jazz, ballet and tumbling. These children are amazing to watch as they perform for their parents and the community. Their adult instructors and teenage assistants work diligently all year and their dedication shows each year at the recital.

Spring Cleaning 2006

The City of Clewiston sponsored their first Spring Cleaning today. Over 150 people came together in our community to pick up trash from the roadsides in our "sweet town". We all met at the youth center at 7:30 this morning to receive our assignment, trash bags, and breakfast. Then we headed out to our various destinations to pick up trash until 11:00 a.m. Various groups from the community included some of First Baptist Church Youth Group, a Senior Adult Sunday School Class from First Baptist Church, the Methodist Church, Sugar Realty, Lions Club, Camp E-Tu-Makee, Clewiston High School Students, and City Employees. After cleaning up our assigned areas we returned to the youth center for lunch, a drawing for tickets to the local movie theatre (donated by the owner), and the awarding of a prize for the most unique trash collected. Dana Jo Alley won the prize for the most unique piece of trash (a 1961 Mountain Dew bottle).

I joined our youth group for the day. My hat goes off to this young group of men and their hard work this morning. It was wonderful to see them out participating in a community event and giving back to the community. They demonstrated service to others as well as their humor. Laughter could be heard from all of them instead of grumbling. I think they think twice now before throwing something along the roadside.

A big thank you to Sean Scheffler for organizing this event. And to quote Rick Miller, City Commissioner, "this is what a community is all about. . . people coming together."

First Baptist Church Youth Group

Update on Angela

Angela's knee is still swollen today. She tried to go to school this morning but had to come home because of the pain. We went to the primary care physican for him to check it out. He pushed, pulled and tried to move it around. She let him know that it was very painful when he was doing so. He suggested that stay on the crutches for a week, alternate heat and ice, take Advil or Motrion for the pain and return for him to re-check it in a week. At that point he will be able to better access the knee and decide if a MRI is necessary. He said a lot times that these type injuries will take a week to 6 weeks to heal. If he decides a MRI is needed he will then refer us to Pediatric Orthopedics in Fort Myers.

Player Down

Tonight we traveled to Moore Haven for Angela's softball game. Unfortunately as the game began so did the rain. We sat in the dugout for 15 minutes before the rain stopped. Then it was time to play ball. In the first inning with Angela at first the batter hit a fly ball to her. She called the ball but missed it so she started to run after it and in the process turned her knee. Down she went with a scream. After finally getting her calmed down the assistant coach carried her to the dug out and put ice on it. The other team had called for an ambulance, but once we looked at it closely we decided to ice it down and call of the ambulance request. She toughed it out in the dugout through the rest of the game and cheered her team to victory (9-7). Luckily we have crutches from previous injuries and will see if the swelling goes down tomorrow. If not we will call our primary care physican and get a referral to the peditratic orthopedist in Fort Myers.

When I'm an Old Lady

When I'm an old lady, I'll live with each kid,
And bring so much happiness...just as they did.
I want to pay back all the joy they've provided.
Returning each deed! Oh, they'll be so excited!
When I'm an old lady and live with my kids
'll write on the wall with reds, whites and blues,
And I'll bounce on the furniture...wearing my shoes.
I'll drink from the carton and then leave it out.
I'll stuff all the toilets and oh, how they'll shout!
When I'm an old lady and live with my kids
When they're on the phone and just out of reach,
I'll get into things like sugar and bleach.
Oh, they'll snap their fingers and then shake their head,
When I'm an old lady and live with my kids
When they cook dinner and call me to eat,
I'll not eat my green beans or salad or meat,
I'll gag on my okra, spill milk on the table,
And when they get angry...I'll run...if I'm able!
When I'm an old lady and live with my kids
I'll sit close to the TV, through the channels I'll click,
I'll cross both eyes just to see if they stick.
I'll take off my socks and throw one away,
And play in the mud 'til the end of the day!
When I'm an old lady and live with my kids
And later in bed, I'll lay back and sigh,
I'll thank God in prayer and then close my eyes.
My kids will look down with a smile slowly creeping,
And say with a groan, "She's so sweet when she's sleeping!"

Sugar Festival

Saturday was the 20th annual Sugar Festival. It was a beautiful day to get out and enjoy the entertainment, arts and crafts booths, and food. The kids enjoyed walking around visiting with friends, watching the bed races, eating the food and checking out all the antique cars. Bubba and I, along with Steve and Pearl enjoyed just sitting around listening to Miranda Lambert and Blake Shelton.

Moving Day Has Arrived

Moving day for my mom, dad, sister and brother-in-law has arrived. My parents left on Tuesday to stay at my oldest brother's house until their new house is ready for them to move into. My sister and her husband have been overseeing the moving company since Tuesday and she called earlier this afternoon to say they were on the road going to their son's house. They should be settled into their new home in Tallahassee by this time next week. Fredia and Andy spent the night at our house last night since their bed had already been loaded onto the moving truck. We enjoyed having them with us.

It is a bittersweet time for the kids and I. We are going to miss having family in town, but know that they will be happy in Tallahassee. Especially my parents since they will be back in the area they have lived their entire life. When I called Daddy today to see how they were doing they were at my uncle and aunt's house visiting them and then they were going by to see a member of the church before going by to my brother's house. I could tell by the sound of my dad's voice that they were happy to be home again where they are able to go see old friends, relatives and go to church where they have been members for over 20 years. Even knowing all of them will be so happy, we still miss them already!

Happy Birthday Ken

Today 37 years ago I was blessed with a baby brother. Through the years we have grown closer and closer. Happy Birthday Ken! I love you bunches!

Easter - What Is It Really About ?

As we approach this Easter Sunday I pray we will not get wrapped up in the world's celebration of Easter. I pray that we will each remember why we celebrate this Sunday each year. It has nothing to do with a bunny, eggs, and candy. Easter celebrates the fact that we can meet the risen Christ and our lives can be different. For without the resurrection of Christ our faith is worthless. Now if Christ is preached that He has been raised from the dead, how do some among you say that there is no resurrection of the dead? But if there is no resurrection of the dead, then Christ is not risen. And if Christ is not risen, then our preaching is empty and your faith is also empty. Yes, and we are found false witnesses of God, because we have testified of God that He raised up Christ, whom He did not raise up - - if in fact the dead do not rise. For if the dead do not rise, then Christ is not risen. And if Christ is not risen, your faith is futile; you are still in your sins! - 1 Corinthians 15:12 - 17

Monday Night at the Fields

I am exhausted this morning! After work I went to the baseball fields to watch Angela, Brock and Jeri Lynne play ball. Brock's game started at 6:10 p.m. and the girl's games started at 7:00 p.m. We didn't get home until 10:00 p.m. Brock lost his game (16-10), Angela lost her game (9-7), and Jeri Lynne won her game (20-15). With Bubba being out of town I watched some of all their games. They are all such good athletes. Angela pitched the entire game last night. She is improving each game. She struck out more players last night than she did on Thursday night. She collided with a runner going to second and whacked her chin pretty good. Luckily there is no ugly bruise there this morning! Jeri Lynne hit the ball really well last night (she was 5 for 7). Brock smacked one out into left field for a double! All in all it was a good night at the fields and well worth being tired this morning.

Play Ball!

Softball season has officially started. Her teamed traveled to Moore Haven last night for their first game. Angela was short stop for 5 innings and finished the game pitching. She was 4 for 3 but unfortunately was stranded on base each time. Last night was the first inning she has ever pitched. She walked more batters than she struck out but with practice I'm sure she was get the hang of it. Their team lost 12-3. This week and the weeks to follow will be consumed with softball and baseball as we will not only be supporting her during her games, but will be supporting Beau, Jeri Lynne, and Brock as they play their games. I forgot to take my camera to any of the games this week but promise to post pictures of future games.

Nanny 911 - Want to Learn How to Raise Perfect Kids?

I'm ordering this book! NOT But someone happens to think it might be a great resource for me and a friend. My friend was actually told that she needed to call Nanny 911 to come to straighten her and her daughter out. Not 2 hours later this same person was telling me that I needed to put a leash on my daughter. I can take criticism from anyone as long as it's done in a kind way. But I will get very defensive when you start telling me that what I am doing is not the right way it is to be done. I know as a mom I'm still learning each day and I'm always open to suggestions. In fact, I constantly seek guidance from friends, my parents, my sibilings who have older children and from God's word. And many times when I've sought others for advice it wasn't always what I wanted to hear. Sometimes it was convicting and made me examine myself and to listen to what was being said. I appreciate people being willing to give advice (even in cases where I haven't asked for it), but what I don't appreciate is someone being rude and hurtful when they do so. Even now after being the one that was made to feel like a failure I'm examining myself to see if I've done someone else like I was done. If I have I am so sorry. I want to be an encourager to others not someone that insults.

Happy 1st Birthday Jake!

Hurricane Repairs

Friday, March 24 will be 5 months ago that Hurricane Wilma came roaring into town. As I have posted previously, we were blessed with only minor damage to our home. Other than losing some of our vinyl siding and skirting and our shed we were spared any major damage. Clewiston residents have been very busy repairing property that was damaged during the storm. We still see blue tarps and debris throughout the community, however you also see contractors steady at work. It has taken 5 months to finally get our siding and skirting repaired. There have been times when I wanted to just throw up my hands and say "forget it by the time I get it fixed another storm will come through to tear it down again." It's frustrating trying to get contractors to give estimates and then do the work. Especially when it is not a major job. It's nice to pull into our driveway and not see a blue tarp hanging from the side of our house and not see everything under our home.


Hurricane Wilma - October 24, 2005



Post Hurricane Wilma - March 21, 2006

HAPPY BIRTHDAY TO MY FRIEND AND SISTER IN CHRIST

WE LOVE YOU LORI!

"Tis So Sweet. . .

to trust in Jesus! As I was typing in this coming Sunday's order of worship for the bulletin, I noticed that we will be singing one of my favorite hymns. I cannot fathom how anyone has any peace in this world we live in without trusting Jesus as their Savior and Lord. How does one raise a child without trusting Christ for his guidance and instruction, how does one lose a loved one without trusting Christ, how does one make a significant change in their life without trusting Christ? I could go on and on naming ways that I have trusted Christ in the trials in my life, but it's not only about trusting Christ with the trials in my life, it's trusting Him with the mundane things as well. I praise Him that He is trustworthy, that I can put all my trust in Him and that He is unchangable.

'Tis So Sweet to Trust in Jesus"

by Louisa Stead

"Tis so sweet to trust in Jesus,

Just to take Him at His word;

Just to rest upon His promise,

Just to know, "Thus saith the Lord."

Jesus, Jesus, how I trust Him!

How I've proved Him o'er and o'er!

Jesus, Jesus, precious Jesus!

O for grace to trust Him more!

O how sweet to trust in Jesus,

Just to trust His cleansing blood;

Just in simple faith to plunge me

'Neath the healing, cleansing flood!

Yes, 'tis sweet to trust in Jesus,

Just from sin and self to cease;

Just from Jesus simply taking

Life and rest, and joy and peace.

I'm so glad I learned to trust Him,

Precious Jesus, Savior, Friend;

And I know that He is with me,

Will be with me to the end.

Girl Talk Review

"The older women likewise, that they be reverent in behavior, not slanderers, not given to much wine, teachers of good things-- that they admonish the young women to love their husbands, to love their children, to be discreet, chaste, homemakers, good, obedient to their own husbands, that the word of God may not be blasphemed." ~ Titus 2: 3-5

From the moment I started reading "Girl Talk" I did not want to put it down. Carol Mahaney & Nicole Mahaney Whitacre wrote in straight from experience regarding the biblical Mother/Daughter relationship. Though the book was candid and humorous, the central message was straight from scripture. The first half of the book takes a look at what the Bible says about mother/daughter relationships. The second half of the book explains how a mother can teach her daughter to speak the language of biblical womanhood. I wish I had known about this book ten years ago. Every mother should have this book on her book shelf.

Examples Must Precede our Instruction

"Train a child in the way he should go, and when he is old he will not turn from it." ~Proverbs 22:6

Thing about this scripture from J.C. Ryle's perspective: "Your children will seldom learn habits which they see you despise, or walk in paths which you do not walk yourself. [She] that preaches to [her] children what she does not practice, is working a work that never goes forward."

In other words, practice what we preach to our children (and others). Whether we care to admit it or not we are the ones [mothers] that have the greatest influence on our children. How can we expect our children to walk in the light if we ourselves are walking in darkness. It's not someone else job to train them, God has commanded us to be the trainer. Not only does he command us in Proverbs to do so, but in Philippians 3:17, "Brethren, join in following my example, and note those who so walk, as you have us for a pattern. "

To borrow a quote from Carolyn Mahaney - “Let us grab our children by the hand and say to them; come, follow me into the riches of the gospel of Jesus Christ."Brethren, join in following my example, and note those who so walk, as you have us for a pattern.

No Mistake

I recall the first time the nurse brought David to my room after he was born and her looking down and saying, "Oops, wrong baby!" She had two male babies in their respective bassinets taking them to their mothers and as she rolled whom she thought was the "Fountain" baby into my room she realized that the name on the bassinet didn't match with my name. It's funny now that I look back on it, but at the time I was astonished that she could get the two confused. It was a honest mistake as both male babies had a head full of red hair, only ounces apart in weight and born within 15 minutes of each other. After we brought David home he developed colic. During those hours of him screaming non-stop we would jokingly exclaim,"This is not our child, they switched them at birth." Of course, we had brought our child home with us. But how many times while raising our children and struggling with issues in raising them have we proclaimed, "This isn't my child."

Make no mistake about it, God doesn't make mistakes. In fact, as I was reading "Girl Talk" yesterday Carolyn Mahaney referred to scripture that I have read many times and never thought about it in this context. Psalm 139:16 says, " Your eyes saw my substance, being yet unformed. And in Your book they all were written, the days fashioned for me, when as yet there were none of them." This passage tells me that even before my children (or myself for that matter) were formed God knew whom their parents would be. He ordained it! It was his desire that I'm David and Angela's mom. This is also confirmed in Acts 17:26 "And He has made from one blood every nation of men to dwell on all the face of the earth, and has determined their preappointed times and the boundaries of their dwellings . . ." The family we were placed in was prearranged by God before creation was! God knew exactly what he was doing when he placed them in my care. He set it up and he will guide me to raise them. They are his perfect choice for me. God has ordained our relationship.

My Thoughts: Stop Dating the Church

Wives, submit to your own husbands, as to the Lord. For the husband is head of the wife, as also Christ is head of the church; and He is the Savior of the body. Therefore, just as the church is subject to Christ, so let the wives be to their own husbands in everything. Husbands, love your wives, just as Christ also loved the church and gave Himself for her, that He might sanctify and cleanse her with the washing of water by the word, that He might present her to Himself a glorious church, not having spot or wrinkle or any such thing, but that she should be holy and without blemish. So husbands ought to love their own wives as their own bodies; he who loves his wife loves himself. For no one ever hated his own flesh, but nourishes and cherishes it, just as the Lord does the church. For we are members of His body, of His flesh and of His bones. “For this reason a man shall leave his father and mother and be joined to his wife, and the two shall become one flesh.” This is a great mystery, but I speak concerning Christ and the church. - Ephesians 5:22-32

For sometime now I have struggled with my commitment to the church, hence the reason I purchased this book. Through this book Harris challenges Christian community to stop dating the church and to become committed. Throughout the book Harris speaks about having a passion for the church and explains that when we, as believers, don't have a passion and commitment to the church we being cheated out of God's best for ourselves, the church and the world. Harris speaks of why we need the local Church and shows what passion in action looks like. This was something that was like a slap in the face, making me say, "that's me. I've lost the passion." His illustration of what passion in action looks like was when someone is passionate about an organization or club, they do a number of things: they join, make it a priority, find ways to serve, give, connect with people and they share their passion with others. This is what passion for the church should be. Harris also gives a wonderful explanation of the church of heaven's perspective from Ephesians 5:22- 33. He then gives a helpful and practical list of ten things that matter in a church. All ten things point to a church that is Christ centered. In the same chapter he talks about when it's time to find a new church home. Harris also gives advice on how to make the most out of Sunday by preparing our hearts and minds all week for worship on Sunday. No matter what you may think your commitment level is currently, this is an eye-opening and challenging book

Anxiously Waiting

I ordered two books last week and have been anxiously waiting for them to arrive. Our youth pastor's wife has been posting some books on her blog that she has currently been reading and then doing book reviews once she has read them. So while visiting her blog last week, I checked out a link to Sovereign Grace Ministries that she had on her blog. It was there that I found two books that interested me. The first one being, "Stop Dating the Church" by Joshua Harris and the second one is "Girl Talk" by Carolyn Mahaney, Nicole Whitacre. Now if the UPS man would just waltz into my office with them!

He's Growing Up too Fast

Just this morning David and I were talking about some of the girls and guys that formerly were involved in our church youth group. Two of them will graduate from college this year. Wow how time flies! I can remember both of these kids being in our children's ministry and then of course going on to the youth group. Just as I was telling David that it didn't seem like these kids should be graduating college it dawned on me that he will graduate just next year. Impossible! I even admitted to him that it was hard for me to fathom that he would be a senior in the fall. It's a sobering thought to think about him graduating and going to college. And I try not to think of it that often. It was just this morning that I registered him to take the ACT Test on the 8th of April and after that we will register him for THE SAT. I'm just not ready for all this!


But it is inevitable that he will leave home. I'm proud of the young man he has grown into and continues to grow. Not every mother of a 15-year-old son can say that he is a remarkable young man. David is remarkable and has a very good head on his shoulders. He has a faith that is unshakeable and will share his faith with others. He stands firm in the things in which he believes. He's an encourager, a friend, a servant and so much more. I am proud very proud of him!

My Weekend

I'm back from the AYSO Section Conference. What a great weekend. Only having been affiliated with AYSO for 1 season, I did not know what a big organization this is. I was impressed to learn all that I learned at this conference and feel like I am joining a great organization. But at the same time I was over whelmed with the responsibility I am about to take on as treasurer. The other 5 board members that attended had a great time as well. The resort was beautiful and very friendly. Our schedules were non-stop from Friday afternoon to Closing Ceremonies. It wouldn't have mattered if I could squeeze that massage into my budget or not (which I found out I couldn't anyway) I wouldn't have had time. And as for the bike ride or walk, the weather solved that issue. But it was a great weekend and I took a lot away from the conference!

4 Days & Counting

Only four more days until I travel to Orlando for a Soccer Conference! Not that sitting in classes for most of the day is very exciting but it really shouldn't be that bad. After all it'll be great going away for the weekend with the girls and having it paid for by AYSO. Looking at the schedule we should have some time on Friday night to go out for dinner. But then again, after looking online at the services and amenities the hotel offers we might decide to stay at the resort for dinner. They have some good looking dining options right there. We will be staying at Disney's Coronado Springs Resort where the conference is being held. Classes for me will consist of three sessions on Friday from 1:00 - 6:00 p.m. Saturday morning I'll have a break in the morning. Then lunch provided by AYSO. Classes resuming at 1:00 p.m. until 6:00 p.m. with a dinner provided by AYSO. On Sunday morning it's back to class at 8:00 a.m. until the closing ceremonies at 11:00 a.m. While I have free time on Saturday I plan on taking advantage of one or two things:

1. A rejuvenating massage (if it fits into my budget).
2. A bike ride or 9 mile stroll around Lago Dorado.

David & Angela will get to spend the weekend with their grandparents while I'm away which they always enjoy doing.

Love All Year

So yesterday was Valentines Day and even though I am blessed this year to have a "significant other" in my life I just have to say this. It's not that big of a deal. Come on aren't we supposed to be showing others that they matter to us all year, not just waiting for "the big day" to arrive to express how we feel. We see the advertisements year after year urging us to buy the flowers, candy, cards, etc for our sweethearts. I'm telling you, I'd rather have my significant other show me I matter all year than just one day out of the year. I'm not going to argue, it's nice receiving the flowers, the candy, and the cards but it doesn't mean anything if this is only time I'm shown I am loved. So as we say farewell to Valentines Day this year let's begin to think about how we can celebrate the day all year!

A Valentines Poem

A friend of mine e-mailed me this Valentines Poem and I just had to share it. . .

Collards is green,
my dog's name is Blue
and I'm so lucky
to have a sweet thang like you.

Yore hair is like cornsilk
a-flapping in the breeze.
Softer than Blue's
and without all them fleas.

You move like the bass,
which excite me in May.
You ain't got no scales
but I luv you anyway.

Yo're as satisfy'n as okry
jist a-fry'n in the pan.
Yo're as fragrant as "snuff"
right out of the can.

You have some'a yore teeth,
for which I am proud;
I hold my head high
when we're in a crowd.

On special occasions,
when you shave under yore arms,
well, I'm in hawg heaven,
and awed by yore charms.

Still them fellers at work,
they all want to know,
what I did to deserve
such a purdy, young doe.

Like a good roll of duct tape
yo're there fer yore man,
to patch up life's troubles
and fix what you can.

Yo're as cute as a junebug
a-buzzin' overhead.
You ain't mean like those far ants
I found in my bed.

Cut from the best cloth
like a plaid flannel shirt,
you spark up my life
more than a fresh load of dirt.

When you hold me real tight
like a padded gunrack,
my life is complete;
Ain't nuttin' I lack.

Yore complexion, it's perfection,
like the best vinyl sidin'.
despite all the years,
yore age, it keeps hidin'.

Me 'n' you's like a Moon Pie
with a RC cold drank,
we go together
like a skunk goes with stank.

Some men, they buy chocolate
for Valentine's Day;
They git it at Wal-Mart,
it's romantic that way.

Some men git roses
on that special day
from the cooler at Kroger.
"That's impressive," I say.

Some men buy fine diamonds
from a flea market booth.
"Diamonds are forever,"
they explain, suave and couth.

But for this man, honey,
these won't do.
Cause yor'e too special,
you sweet thang you.

I got you a gift,
without taste nor odor,
more useful than diamonds...
IT'S A NEW BOAT 'N MOTOR!!

Heart Ball

The Lions Club hosted the Heart Ball on Saturday night. All proceeds from the event went into the Dan McCarthy Scholarship Fund. Dan McCarthy served as a Lion Club member for numerous years prior to his passing last year. Bubba and I got all dressed (semi-formal) up for the Ball and had a wonderful time. Many of our friends were there and we had a great time. The Jukebox Band was awesome and we enjoyed getting to dance the night away. I just need someone to teach me to do the Electric Slide before I go dancing again. I have to admit. . . I had the best looking date for the night!

Blessings

I have been blessed to have family live close by all my life. I can't think of a time that I didn't have my family living in the same town I lived in or at least some of them. But, I'm about to discover what it's like not to have family around. When we moved here 10 years ago, my sister and her family were already established here. That's why we came here. Then 3 years ago my parents health was declining and we moved them down here with my sister and her husband. Our parents health has now improved and my brother-in-law just got a new job in Tallahassee. The four of them will be moving back to Tallahassee where the rest of my family is. They still have to sell their home here, but it's going to happen.

Even though I know I'm going to miss my family, I am reminded how blessed I am that I have friends here. At times there are certain friends that are so close that we look to them as an extended family. I think about people that I've met that have no family and think of how hard that must be. Some I have even met that don't have family but lack the circle of friends that God has so richly blessed me with.

We know it's going to be a sad day when our family moves away, but at the same time rejoice in the fact that we have an extended family that will still be here.

Skeet Shoot & Super Bowl

Saturday was the 10th annual Camp E-Tu-Makee Skeet Shoot. This event helps raise money for the Educational Program at Camp E-Tu-Makee. This just happened to be the first year that it has rained on the day of the shoot. But that didn't keep shooters from coming out and shooting. The rain held off until about 10:00 a.m. and shooters did get in some time, but didn't get to complete all the stations. Thus, the advisory board committee and camp personnel decided it wouldn't be fair to hold the competition. So after lunch the shooters had the opportunity to receive a refund on their entry fee and to stay in the drizzling rain to shoot for fun. Several people stayed to just shoot, but some chose to return next year to compete. I don't think anybody requested a refund. Camp still served the delicious lunch and held the drawing for door prizes and two raffles. It is always a good time seeing everyone that comes out for the shoot. This was my third year being at the shoot, hopefully next year will be sunshiny skys for the shoot.

Sunday was the big day! "Superbowl Sunday". Not that I'm a big NFL fan, but whatever it's an excuse to get together with friends and eat as well as watch a football game. Bubba and I went over to Chief Steve's and his wife, Pearl's house to watch the game. Several camp personnel were there and some old friends stopped by as well. David hung out with Tommy, Nick, and Ryan at Tommy's to watch the game and play their favorite game. . ."Balderdash". Angela went with Jeri Lynne to New Harvest Church for the Superbowl Night there. I picked Angela and Jeri Lynne up from New Harvest around 9:00 p.m. and they hung out with the rest of us at Chief Steve's.

A Cat's Life

Every day we will find our cats , Whiskers and Vanilla, sleeping or lazing on my bed. I couldn't resist this afternoon snapping a photo of them. Ah to have a cat's life.